Dr. Mira built this course for you. It isn't about fighting — it's about knowing where you are, who is near you, how to use your voice, and how to get to safety. Five modules, clear steps, repetition, and real New York City scenarios.
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Module 1 — Awareness & Positioning
Reading the street before anything happens. Where to stand, where to look, when to move.
Goal: Learn to read a block before anything happens, so most trouble never reaches you.
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Module 2 — Voice, Boundaries & De-escalation
Using your voice as your first tool: firm phrases, posture, and getting help fast.
Goal: Use your voice, posture and distance as your first and best defense.
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Module 3 — Hands-On Basics
Simple, repeatable physical skills that work under stress — no martial arts background needed.
Goal: Build a few simple physical skills that still work when you are scared and shaking.
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Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel
Platform safety, car selection, late-night routes, and exits you plan in advance.
Goal: Move through the subway, buses and late-night streets with a plan already made.
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Module 5 — Emotional Regulation Under Pressure
Staying regulated so your body can do what you practiced. Breathing, freezing, recovery.
Goal: Stay regulated enough that your body can do what you practiced.
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Dr. Chen — relaying what Mira said
"Mira added more to your self-defense course"
Word-for-word, the way she said it
Hey — I just got off the phone with Mira, and she asked me to tell you something directly.
Mira added more to your self-defense course. She kept looking at the original plan and saying, “No, I want her to have more practice here.” So she went back in and expanded it herself.
She added more guidance for reading the street, using your voice, setting boundaries, staying safe on the subway, and keeping your emotions steady when something feels wrong. She wants every part explained clearly, repeated when it matters, and connected to real New York City situations.
Look, she did not add more because you were behind. She added more because she believes you can learn this, use it, and become more confident every time you go outside. Mira is building this around you, and she is very serious about making sure you feel prepared.
What situational awareness actually means
A plain-language definition and why it matters more than fighting.
8 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
The 10-second street scan
A repeatable pattern for scanning a block the moment you step outside.
11 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Walking with your head up
Phone habits, headphones, and how to stay connected to your surroundings.
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Choosing your side of the sidewalk
Curb side vs. building side, and what changes at night.
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Spotting someone following you
Three checks that confirm it without turning around dramatically.
13 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Safe places to duck into
Bodegas, hotel lobbies, pharmacies — pre-picking your safe doors.
9 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Corners, scaffolding, and blind spots
Widening your path around the places you can't see through.
12 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Crowds vs. empty blocks
When more people help you and when they don't.
8 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Reading body language early
Distance, hands, and pacing — the cues that come before trouble.
11 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Practice walk #1: a Midtown block
A guided walk-along where you call out what you notice.
14 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Your voice is your first defense
Why loud and clear stops most situations before they start.
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The three phrases that work
Short, firm scripts you can say without thinking.
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Saying no without apologizing
Removing the softeners that invite more pressure.
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Setting distance with your hands up
The non-aggressive stance that creates space.
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Handling aggressive panhandling
Keeping moving, keeping kind, keeping safe.
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When someone won't leave you alone
Escalating your response in clear, planned steps.
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Asking a stranger for help correctly
Pointing at one person and giving them a specific job.
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Calling 911 while it's happening
What to say first so help finds you fast.
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De-escalating an angry person
Tone, distance, and the words that lower the temperature.
13 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Practice drill: say it out loud
Rehearsing your phrases until they come out steady.
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Your stance and your base
Standing so you don't get moved — the foundation for everything.
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Protecting your head
The simple cover that buys you time.
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Breaking a wrist grab
One motion, both sides, practiced slowly first.
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Getting out of a shoulder grab
Turning into it instead of pulling away.
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Escaping a bear hug from behind
Dropping your weight and creating an angle.
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The palm strike
The safest strike for your hands, and where it lands.
13 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Elbows in close space
What to do when someone is already too close.
9 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Using your legs to create distance
Low kicks that let you run, not fight.
12 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Falling safely on concrete
How to go down without hitting your head.
8 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Getting back up fast
Standing from the ground with your eyes forward.
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Everyday objects as tools
Keys, bag, umbrella — used simply and legally.
14 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Practice circuit: the whole sequence
Running all the physical skills in order, slowly.
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Waiting on the platform safely
Where to stand, how far from the edge, and why.
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Choosing your subway car
Conductor car, crowd level, and time of night.
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Inside the car: seat and exit choice
Sitting where you can see the doors and move.
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Late-night station strategy
Off-hours waiting areas, staff booths, and cameras.
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Bus stops and boarding
Front-door habits and asking the driver for help.
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If someone sits too close
Moving without confrontation.
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Transfers and unfamiliar stations
Planning the exit before you need it.
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Getting off at your stop safely
The first thirty seconds above ground.
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Rideshares and taxis
Verifying, seating, and sharing your trip.
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Practice ride: plan a night route
Building a full door-to-door safety plan.
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Why your body freezes
What adrenaline does, in plain terms, with no shame.
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Box breathing on the street
A four-count reset you can do while walking.
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Naming the feeling to lower it
Labeling fear so it stops driving.
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Anger is information, not a plan
Using it without letting it choose for you.
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Recovering after a scare
The hour afterward: shaking, crying, eating, resting.
13 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Rebuilding confidence after a bad day
Going back out with a smaller, safer plan.
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Emotional maturity as a safety skill
Choosing the boring outcome on purpose.
12 min Dr. Mira explainsNot watched yet
Graduation: your personal safety plan
Writing your own plan and reading it to Dr. Mira.
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