Self-defense course

Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel

Lesson 34 of 50Choosing your subway car

9 min

Dr. Mira explains · Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel · Lesson 34

Dr. Mira explaining lesson 34: Choosing your subway car

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Transcript

Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 34: Choosing your subway car. Conductor car, crowd level, and time of night. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Plan your exit before you ever need it. Knowing the way out calms your body before anything happens. On the platform, stand back from the edge, near a pillar or the staffed booth, with your back not fully exposed. Pick the conductor's car at night — it is the middle of the train, and there is always a worker in it. Inside the car, sit where you can see the doors and where you have a clear path to stand up. Stand where other people can see you. Light and cameras are your friends. If your stomach tightens, change cars at the next stop. You do not need proof. Trust that signal. The first thirty seconds above ground matter most. Step out, move away from the stairwell, orient, then start walking with purpose. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.

What this lesson covers

Conductor car, crowd level, and time of night.

Module goal: Move through the subway, buses and late-night streets with a plan already made.

What you'll be able to do

Choose your subway car deliberately.

Key points

  • The conductor's car (usually middle) is the safest default.
  • Never board a nearly empty car late at night if a fuller one is available.

Step by step

  1. 1Look for the conductor's window position on the platform.
  2. 2Scan the car through the window before boarding.
  3. 3If the car is empty at night, walk to a fuller one.

Common mistakes

  • Boarding the closest door out of habit.

New York City scenario

You skip the empty last car and walk to the middle where the conductor rides.

Practice drill

Find the conductor's board position at your home station.

Quick check

Which car is the safest default?