Self-defense course

Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel

Lesson 33 of 50Waiting on the platform safely

13 min

Dr. Mira explains · Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel · Lesson 33

Dr. Mira explaining lesson 33: Waiting on the platform safely

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Transcript

Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 33: Waiting on the platform safely. Where to stand, how far from the edge, and why. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Plan your exit before you ever need it. Knowing the way out calms your body before anything happens. On the platform, stand back from the edge, near a pillar or the staffed booth, with your back not fully exposed. Pick the conductor's car at night — it is the middle of the train, and there is always a worker in it. Inside the car, sit where you can see the doors and where you have a clear path to stand up. Stand where other people can see you. Light and cameras are your friends. If your stomach tightens, change cars at the next stop. You do not need proof. Trust that signal. The first thirty seconds above ground matter most. Step out, move away from the stairwell, orient, then start walking with purpose. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.

What this lesson covers

Where to stand, how far from the edge, and why.

Module goal: Move through the subway, buses and late-night streets with a plan already made.

What you'll be able to do

Wait on a subway platform safely.

Key points

  • Stand back from the edge — behind the yellow line, ideally against a column or wall.
  • Off-peak, wait in the Off-Hours Waiting Area near the booth.

Step by step

  1. 1Pick a spot with your back protected.
  2. 2Face the platform, not the tunnel.
  3. 3Only approach the edge as the train arrives.

Common mistakes

  • Standing at the edge looking down the tunnel with earbuds in.

New York City scenario

At 11pm you wait under the camera near the booth, back to the column.

Practice drill

Next ride, choose your waiting spot deliberately and note why.

Quick check

Where should you wait off-peak?