Module 2 — Voice, Boundaries & De-escalation
Lesson 18 of 50 — Calling 911 while it's happening
10 min
Dr. Mira explains · Module 2 — Voice, Boundaries & De-escalation · Lesson 18
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Transcript
Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 18: Calling 911 while it's happening. What to say first so help finds you fast. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Your voice is a boundary. Loud, short, and clear is what works — long sentences invite negotiation. Use three parts: a firm word, a direction, and distance. 'No.' Then, 'Step back.' Then you move. Keep your hands up at chest height, palms open. That is not aggressive, it is a fence. It marks your space and it protects your face. If you need help, point at one specific person and give them one specific job. 'You, in the blue coat — call 911.' Crowds freeze; individuals act. On a 911 call, lead with where you are, then what is happening. Location first, always, in case the call drops. Say it out loud with me now, even softly. Muscle memory starts with practice, and your voice needs reps just like your hands do. You do not owe anyone politeness when you feel unsafe. Being rude is survivable. Staying in a bad spot to be polite is not worth it. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.
What this lesson covers
What to say first so help finds you fast.
Module goal: Use your voice, posture and distance as your first and best defense.
What you'll be able to do
Give 911 what they need in the first ten seconds.
Key points
- Location first, always. Everything else is second.
- In NYC: cross streets, or the subway line, direction and station.
Step by step
- 1Say the location.
- 2Say what is happening in one sentence.
- 3Say the description: clothing, direction of travel.
- 4Stay on the line and keep moving toward light and people.
Say this, exactly
- “I'm at 8th Ave and 42nd. A man is following me. Grey hoodie, heading north with me.”
Common mistakes
- Starting with the story instead of the address.
New York City scenario
You call while walking into a hotel lobby and give cross streets before anything else.
Practice drill
Practice the location-first sentence for three places you go often.
Quick check
What comes first on a 911 call?