Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel
14 min
Dr. Mira explains · Module 4 — Subway, Bus & Night Travel · Lesson 38
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Transcript
Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 38: If someone sits too close. Moving without confrontation. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Plan your exit before you ever need it. Knowing the way out calms your body before anything happens. On the platform, stand back from the edge, near a pillar or the staffed booth, with your back not fully exposed. Pick the conductor's car at night — it is the middle of the train, and there is always a worker in it. Inside the car, sit where you can see the doors and where you have a clear path to stand up. Stand where other people can see you. Light and cameras are your friends. If your stomach tightens, change cars at the next stop. You do not need proof. Trust that signal. The first thirty seconds above ground matter most. Step out, move away from the stairwell, orient, then start walking with purpose. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.
What this lesson covers
Moving without confrontation.
Module goal: Move through the subway, buses and late-night streets with a plan already made.
What you'll be able to do
Handle someone sitting too close without confrontation.
Key points
Step by step
Say this, exactly
Common mistakes
New York City scenario
Someone slides next to you in an empty car. You stand, move two doors down, and they stay put.
Practice drill
Give yourself permission out loud: 'I'm allowed to move seats.'
Quick check
If they follow you to your new seat?