Emotional regulation course

Module 10 — Self-compassion first

Lesson 10 of 60Self-compassion first

7 min

Video 10 · Module 10 — Self-compassion first · 7 min

Self-compassion first

One slow breath on the sidewalk — naming the feeling before you move.

Use this as a safety tool

  • A flooded brain misses cars. One breath at the curb buys you the half-second you need to actually look.
  • Name it silently — 'I'm rushed' — because a feeling you can name stops steering your feet for you.
  • Never step off a curb inside a spike of anger, panic, or tears. Wait for the next light instead.

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Dr. Mira explains · Module 10 — Self-compassion first · Lesson 10

Dr. Mira explaining lesson 10: Self-compassion first

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Transcript

Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 10: Self-compassion first. You are not broken for having big feelings. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Emotions are information, not commands. Naming a feeling out loud makes it easier to work with. There is no wrong emotion. There are only choices about what to do next. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.

What this lesson covers

You are not broken for having big feelings.