Emotional regulation course

Module 30 — Defusing from unhelpful thoughts

Lesson 30 of 60Defusing from unhelpful thoughts

11 min

Video 30 · Module 30 — Defusing from unhelpful thoughts · 11 min

Defusing from unhelpful thoughts

One slow breath on the sidewalk — naming the feeling before you move.

Use this as a safety tool

  • A flooded brain misses cars. One breath at the curb buys you the half-second you need to actually look.
  • Name it silently — 'I'm rushed' — because a feeling you can name stops steering your feet for you.
  • Never step off a curb inside a spike of anger, panic, or tears. Wait for the next light instead.

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Dr. Mira explains · Module 30 — Defusing from unhelpful thoughts · Lesson 30

Dr. Mira explaining lesson 30: Defusing from unhelpful thoughts

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Transcript

Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 30: Defusing from unhelpful thoughts. Letting a thought pass by like a train car instead of climbing inside. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Thoughts are guesses, not facts. When you catch a catastrophic story, ask: what else could be true? One calm breath gives your prefrontal cortex time to come back online. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.

What this lesson covers

Letting a thought pass by like a train car instead of climbing inside.