Emotional regulation course

Module 14 — Breathing as a remote control

Lesson 14 of 60Breathing as a remote control

9 min

Video 14 · Module 14 — Breathing as a remote control · 9 min

Breathing as a remote control

One slow breath on the sidewalk — naming the feeling before you move.

Use this as a safety tool

  • A flooded brain misses cars. One breath at the curb buys you the half-second you need to actually look.
  • Name it silently — 'I'm rushed' — because a feeling you can name stops steering your feet for you.
  • Never step off a curb inside a spike of anger, panic, or tears. Wait for the next light instead.

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Dr. Mira explains · Module 14 — Breathing as a remote control · Lesson 14

Dr. Mira explaining lesson 14: Breathing as a remote control

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Transcript

Hi, sweetheart. It's Dr. Mira. Welcome to lesson 14: Breathing as a remote control. How exhaling longer than you inhale signals safety to your nervous system. Let me walk you through this properly, the way I would if we were sitting together. Your body often knows before your words do. A tight jaw, fast breath, or clenched hands are early warning signals. Changing your body even a little can change your emotional temperature. Now here's how I want you to practice. Read the lesson once, picture yourself doing it, and then do it for real one time today. One repetition is enough to start. If it feels awkward the first time, that's normal. Awkward means new, not wrong. That's all for this one. Watch it as many times as you need. I'm so proud of you for being here.

What this lesson covers

How exhaling longer than you inhale signals safety to your nervous system.